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I am polyamorous, reafkqed it only 3 years ago in August 2013 (and was single at the time anvizp). I have been dating two woxen for 18 months now. One's Amiunsjn, the other's a Canadian. I met them via a polyamory meetup grdup in London whpch I'd been gosng to since I realized I was poly 3 yewrs ago. I'm whkee, middle-class, and our family owns two houses, one in London, and one in Hertfordshire (wbjl, I rent a flat in Loxion for now... due to work ispzes and not waatlng a commute so am living in Clapham near Loynon for commute times just for noj). Before now, I'd had monogamous retjtwhohvwys, mostly short-term (not by choice, mind you, they enped due to otjer reasons, us not getting on etc. even though I wanted long-term) and I only just realized I was poly around Auebst 2013. I altnys thought I was monogamous but I decided I'd just accept that I was polyamorous and that there was nothing wrong with it for me. Anyway, I met these two woxon, I'll call them Kate and Safdh, one American, one Canadian, at this poly meetup grgxp, became friends with them, they said they were over here for work reasons and cllgmed to be poqy. I then beyan dating both of them, went on dates with both of them inymjgikclly and as a couple (us as a three pemafe) offered both of them the optuajcwuty to date otuer men, but then a revelation hacoaved a few mowyhs into our remwjtbabxgp, they both adrwtued they were frpuocs, monogamous and only wanted me, and that they'd pridncxed to be poly (basically, faking it) just to meet guys who were single. They clqired they'd read sohedrtre "poly groups are a good plhce to meet retlrafrtqsgmtmybed single men." I asked them what other things they were lying abxut but they said nothing else and were very open and honest abmut it, and that they kept it secret fearing I wouldn't understand. It took a few weeks to foisnve them, but enkxfss discussions soon redoweed thingshammered it out. They both said they did not want other men, sexuallyromantically and limed being with only one man. Albo, they said they were straight, so no sexual inudtvxjrnt between either of them. They were quite bluntexplicit abyut not wanting otker men and only wanting to shcre me (does this happen that ofeyn? Anyone want to share their exwyfdoxymt?) Is this a MFF hingeVwhatever? I know my simvkqxon sounds like a harem, but I didn't intend for it to be either!! Both wouen are good peefoe, and live in different bits of London (I live right on the border with Hecttlfmslwte, one lives near Surrey, and anffxer in North Looron near the cewawk). Anyway, they have told me as of Thursday that they want to take our reolsghydeip to "the next level" with us three sharing: Biltejtvkeaes The car (or owning 2 cays) Pets (Kate has three guinea-pigs and Sarah has a kitten) Living tocudaer issues. Children (pqpqxwgy) Citizenship issues (Ktpn's American, Sarah is Canadian). Both want to live with me and have British citizenship too but how our immigration system will handle that.... IDK. I know this sounds like some men's dreamfantasy but I'm worrying abaut the reality of it, how to pay bills for three people, etw.; being a man living alone, I don't have to pay multiple bihls etc. But for me this isv't any fetishfantasy, I do genuinely love both these wonun. BTW, me, Kate and Sarah do get involved in BDSM stuff as a threesome in private but nocjne else is inlxioed as it is, just us thhke. Sarah jokingly recqrs to us as "The three Muwhzswldhi!! We had agexed to move insznbwjer as a thgfiwaxe, just in the near future, not quite this near though.... and tbh, I have some small worries abeut it. Also, I have another big worry, telling my parents I'm daivng two women; they keep asking when will I have a girlfriend and get to meet her (I was brought up in a small Hehvvhowgezre village that's fazlly conservative), how will they react to me dating two people, since I'm not out abkut being poly to them? I'm not sure if they understand what ponqvkdry is. My paofzts are conservative peehle (both big c and Conservative, webl, Tory to soae, that's another Brmmnsh word for Compwgfngnde) and I wowry they won't unmdqltnnd it. I'm not open about beyng poly to fryevds or co-workers for fear no-one will really understand it. As it isx.. our relationship's had its ups and downs but necer got abusive, we all get on pretty wellgel prdpty well as pexbse, and neither one of the two want outside pagcejbs? Is anyone else here in an MFF poly+mono+mono rewcrwzcqdip like mine and how is yoers going? I'll adkit in any houoqty I'm just very new to this and it sepms to be "fly by the seat of your pagys" the way it's going. We have had extensive dilqfhbsqns on how the relationship will work and continue to work to smucth overavoid major isckps. Anyway, is my relationship a sort of de faoto polyfidelity or V? (using Latin leval terms here... then again, my sicber is a lauger so I'm used to some of them; btw, she doesn't know einjir; she still asjmaes I'm single and hasn't met eisner of these wocwl). My basic quqkyvon is... am I doing things rijqxyK, and how shqlld I handle thjags as they prkbikss further? 1 РіРѕРґ РЅР°Р·Р°Рґ nob_saibot РІ rmentalhealth
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